Thanksgiving always makes me think about gratitude—and it takes me right back to being a kid.
Growing up, writing thank-you notes wasn’t optional in my house. If someone gave you a gift, you sat down and wrote a thoughtful note. End of story. My mom was firm on this, and honestly, I’m glad she was. Even if the gift was from my aunt—who, without fail, sent me the same thing every single year: a pair of Argyle dress socks.
As a kid, I didn’t get it. I’d stare at those socks and wonder, Does she really think I’m excited about this? But no matter what, Mom would remind me, “They thought about you. They took the time to send you something. You can take the time to say thank you.”
So I’d write the note, probably with an exaggerated eye roll or two. And while 12-year-old me didn’t quite grasp the value of those socks, grown-up me gets it now.
It wasn’t about the gift—it was about the gesture. My aunt was thinking of me. She took time out of her life to choose something, wrap it, and send it my way. That effort mattered then, and it matters even more to me now.
Time is one of the most valuable things we have, and when someone spends theirs on you, it’s worth pausing to say thank you. Not because you’re supposed to, but because gratitude is how we show people that their effort meant something.
That’s a habit I’ve carried with me, and Thanksgiving is the perfect time to lean into it. So this year, I’ll be saying “thank you” a little more—and I hope you do, too. Because even a small gesture of gratitude can make someone feel seen, appreciated, and loved. And isn’t that what this season is all about?
The Power of “Thank You”
“Thank you” is the most powerful phrase that a nonprofit can use. And it doesn’t matter if it’s a $5 gift, or a $500,000 bequest—you need to say it. Donors may not necessarily want a bunch of recognition or hoopla. A little gratitude goes a long way, after all. But they do want to be personally thanked.
How you do that is up to you—that’s what gift policies are for. Maybe it’s a short email, or a phone call, a note in the mail, or even a visit. Just make sure you do it, and in a timely manner. Donor-centered fundraising is built on committed stewardship, and a critical period of stewardship begins with the thank-you. If you fail that first test, you’ve lost a supporter for good.
“Gratitude Creates a Vision For Tomorrow”
So as you’re reflecting over the turkey and the table of food, think about developing a year-round “attitude of gratitude” and making it part of your organization’s culture. That way your thankfulness always feels sincere.
Then, next year, make good use of the Thanksgiving holiday to show your donors and volunteers how thankful you are for them. Use our free and paid materials to build a “gratitude” campaign with emails; postcards; blog posts; in your Newslet, and in social media posts.
Oh, and in case I haven’t said it lately, I’m thankful for you — our readers, clients, and friends in the nonprofit world. To your continued success.